Increasingly convinced the core divide in humanity is between those who suffer a traumatic, destabilizing event (as we all do) and believe everybody else should have to, too, and those who suffer such an event and hope they are the last person ever to do so.
i remember in my deep suffering everyone telling me how i was not alone in my abuse, csa, that many other had expired it as well. no understood or knew what to say when i snapped and screamed that's worst, that the only way i would feel better was if i was the only one or my abuser was dead
