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Just an fyi... I will not respond to "hi" or "hello" or "can I ask a question" DM etiquette requirements are the same. State your business or do not interact XD Please understand this
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i know the feeling... that why i spam it to some mutual buddy XD
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I feel like this is such a good trick to learning how to send a DM that it's not even really a joke: bsky.app/profile/gild...
With DMs/PMs coming, I beg you all to learn the Inigo Montoya method of first contact. 1. Introduce self 2. Establish commonality 3. Establish expectations
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I certainly view it more like a mnemonic than anything!
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True... but honestly? It works really well. ^w^d
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All chat software should just swallow the hi message and auto-respond with hi. That way the first message you get is the one that actually says something meaningful.
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I honestly treat them as spam and just delete them... that's some bot behaviour right there, haha.
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Not necessarily bot behavior. In my experience they are usually always followed by "do you do requests?" and it still keeps happening. These are folks I do not want to humor talking to because they have nothing beneficial to say or ask.
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I mean, it happened yesterday as soon as DM's were available here
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They pretend they can't see the link in the bio.
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They ignore commissions, they want free art
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I need to print this and frame it on my... idk my profile banner or something.
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100% agreed on that one. I'm (unfortunately) still on DA (have some RL friends that only post there) and lately, the "Can I use your art as a muse for a mural?" BS messages have been replaced with "Hi" or "Hello" ones. I've pretty much just marked them as spam and moved on.
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It's how I used to start conversations when I was young and anxious, so I usually correlate it to being either young, anxious, OR a bot from discord asking me to commission them.
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Enabling everybody DMing me knowing full well I'll just constantly be rejecting shit like this.
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"State your business, Soldier."
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Understandable. Even I use test word to some mutual to see if they receive my word or not.
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I responded once --just ONCE-- to a "hi" message and they tried to steal my identity