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Believe me, dudes, you know many, many women with a memory of a(t least one) sexual encounter that, like the one Stormy Daniels described, was consensual but also 100% unwanted.
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In words that men can understand: sometimes consenting to unwanted sex is the best of several bad options. Just because you were able to choose to swerve into a neighbor's yard rather than hit a dog or a kid, doesn't mean it wasn't a car accident. It was just the least harm.
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and sometimes your threat response is freezing up.
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I'm a Fighter and I think I am by far the rarity among the four. It's the riskiest and most dangerous option.
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LOUDER FOR THE FOLKS IN THE BACK
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It's not Fight or Flight response. It's Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn. We really, really need to get that out there.
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Once an old friend who'd stopped by to catch up turned a goodbye hug into picking me up, carrying me to my bedroom, and literally throwing me on my bed. I'd never fawned so hard in my life to get him out of my apartment. Thankfully I somehow achieved success before things escalated further.
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Freeze is what happened to me everytime