Anybody who finds it unbelievable that an older guy who ditched his wife to have a big, messy, public relationship (that revolved entirely around reminding people that they fuck) with a much younger woman who's a nightmare would also be a rapist hasn't been to many bars or live music venues.
There isn't a bar or venue I've ever been to multiple times where I didn't eventually hear "you know that older guy in the leather jacket who's always talking about 'decadence' and dancing too close to girls while his weirdly young girlfriend grins? Well..."