a trans girl friend send it to me and we were mutually of the exact same two thoughts
1 - this did not happen, this is "after I came back from vietnam" level shit
2 - if it DID happen, Rowling's social skills are so eroded she genuinely thinks she made a point being weird and uncomfortable
lol exactly
like she clearly weirded this person out and she's touting that as proof of basically everything except the real cause: she was being creepy and weird!