I once met someone who told me I was the first Jew they had ever met and were surprised that I had filed my horns down so nicely you couldn't even tell I had any. Very polite and nice person.
It really was! They were just ignorant, not mean. I think they walked away from that conversation understanding that they had been miseducated their whole lives. It was sorta shocking for me because like...that SEEMS like deliberate antagonism. But she was really a sweet old lady.
