That's the mark of a true Jedi. Beef it so hard that you have to fuck off to the backwoods to atone for your sins until someone shows up trying to do right instead of wrong. That's when you lie to them and maybe even try to get them to kill their dad.
Honestly I’ve never been able to understand how the people who are furious about “what Disney did to Luke” don’t see that fucking off to go die in the woods somewhere is absolutely a Jedi’s destiny.