The common thread here is to *not* light your hair on fire, and try and maintain a sense of perspective been events in the text box, the TV box, and the ballot box.
No he isn’t. You are. You’re risking things by giving undecided voters a permission structure to not vote for Biden. “Even democrats don’t think he can do the job.”
You are contributing to the general vibe that undecideds respond to.
No your specific pants pissing isn’t going to change any minds.
The flood of piss from people like you is what they respond to.
It was literally something never trumpers said in 2016 about HRC.