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Stars and planets, THIS. This FOREVER. And also the missing art of folks who were passed over and shut out because such men didn't want to fuck them in the first place and therefore just utterly ignored them
Hot take: I'm truly not interested in hand wringing over how much people will miss enjoying the books of men who have turned out to be abusers. I'm far more concerned about the missing art that women haven't been able to create/publish because they crossed paths with such men.
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I have at different times been offered work by people who wanted to sleep with me and had my work ignored/overlooked by people who did not and both those things are ways abusers hijack businesses and industries to maximize their access to victims
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I remember once reading a "funny" story about how all the entry level jobs on Bryan Singer's movies go to young white men who look exactly the same, lol isn't Singer a jerk He sure is But two things are true: 1. Those men were in danger, and 2. Other talented people were shut out of those jobs.
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Oh, god, we had this with uni choirs. We all knew the choral director of one of the small ones managed to get the lion's share of good-looking tenors and basses, and had affairs with some of them. People made jokes about his type, and I remember the more naive straight lads being really at sea.