So a legit serious tip for content creators:
The English Football Association have A BUNCH of free online courses on how to behave when minors are involved in what you do.
Just go do them. Free courses.
Also don't sext them. But that bit should be really sodding obvious.
Essentially football coaching has the same risks of parasocial behaviour and power misuse.
So do the courses, not least so you can be punched rhetorically in the face with reality.
Twitch and YouTube should obviously offer this shit too but don't. Because that would imply liability.