I hope people take a good look at this Neil Gaiman situation. Rapists and abusers are often "nice guys" who have a lot of enablers bc they don't groom just their victims. When you tell us, NOT ALL MEN, who the fuck can we trust when "nice guy" is often a cover for terrible abusers?
If you find yourself saying, "But he never did anything to me. He's such a nice guy," when victims come forward? Beloved, you have been groomed for exactly this role: to give the nice guy cover and even defense when victims come forward.
