Increasingly convinced the core divide in humanity is between those who suffer a traumatic, destabilizing event (as we all do) and believe everybody else should have to, too, and those who suffer such an event and hope they are the last person ever to do so.
100% agree. I often see the former playing out as: someone is abused in some way when they are vulnerable, when they ask why that happened they are told that is how things are, and they internalize that as there being good reasons for the harm done to them
