I was going to be very British and diffident about the cancer surgery I'm having imminently, but decided in the end to write this in the hope that it might be helpful for others in similar positions.
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Truthfully one of the best, insightful, well-informed, philosophical, humble, poetic writing ~ thank you for sharing with us your reflections on life, and on yours.
I had to do this surgery when I was 38. Mine went very smoothly, with a quick short-term recovery and full recovery as expected after about a year, and no sign of cancer since. I think that's a very common experience, though obviously it's a nerve-racking experience no matter what.