It's not that our culture is shame-focused per se, it's that the rich and powerful are INCREDIBLY prudish. And they want to make sure that we aren't allowed to have fun in ways they disapprove of.
Etsy was one of the first places I could find ANY transmasc focused\intended stuff beyond clothing, specifically for toys for my body shape and combination prosthetics.
This just deepens the suspicions I have with the directions Etsy is going in. Again. Sigh. HECC.