My first formative exposure to #2 was as a young child when I read Peter Pan and I can still remember the final scene word for word ("Bad form!")
I am like 99% sure that this is something Brian Kendrick and I have in common
Favorite wrestling feud tropes:
3. The face is the only opponent the heel actually respects and/or fears
2. The heel is desperate to drag the face down to their level
1. They used to be best friends (probably closer than brothers? IJS)
(Not mutually exclusive obviously)