But also, sometimes it's important for people whose worldview rests on everyone else being quietly uncomfortable to have to sit with some negative feelings they get when someone else asserts a perspective they don't like.
Kid gloves don't always help.
Sure, and I'm not completely unreceptive to that. Like today is probably a bad day to burn an American flag if persuasion is your goal, but I'm never going to fully write off iconoclasty.