Apparently making amends with your ex instead of hating him forever is "moving backwards". The fuck.
He was my best friend for over a DECADE. Do you have any idea how happy I am that I'm happy for him?? And we might be able to be friends again??
Only one of my exes is on my shit list and like, even then, if they get the therapy they need I could definitely welcome them back.
Like, there's a reason we choose the partners we do, and it's typically for being such good friends.
Everybody has different experiences with Exes. Sadly most of mine are negative, but I'm always glad to hear when others can bury the bullshit and stay friends
