it was very radicalizing to me to see the way that other people reacted to trans people asking for accommodations that were, it seemed to me, completely free
what the fuck is it to me if I call you different names or pronouns? hell, what is it if you personally get a surgery?
part of the reason i am always on about the ideological, non-material drivers of politics is that i am a member of a tiny materially irrelevant minority that is nevertheless vigorously hated and pursued by the right