🥀Zai, the elven goddess of breeding🥀: My personal opinion on this is if you’re checking in and asking how your sub(s) is doing durning are scene it shows your even more dominant because you have control of yourself

My personal opinion on this is if you’re checking in and asking how your sub(s) is doing durning are scene it shows your even more dominant because you have control of yourself

Huge agree! And, as a sub, one thing i've learned is: hey subs do check ins on your dom(s)!! Make sure they're comfy and enjoying themselves! Let them know you're enjoying things! Just cuz they're playing the role of confident and control doesn't mean they're not anxious about harming you!! 📌

This so much

My boyfriend shoved his phone in my face with this on it saying, "THIS IS WHY YOU'RE GOOD" and I hope he will see how much I appreciate him for that. I think it's important to make sure everyone is having a good time. Otherwise, what's the point?

No clue, like I find my joy in being dom is by knowing that my sub(s) had a great time and felt cared for after

Check ins are hot yall. Do check ins

i thought doms were supposed to care about their subs and just people in general

It should be this way, but there are people who claim to be a “rough dom” but it’s to hide their abusive behaviors

yeah being a dick is being a dick i always associate good doms with acting more like a (good) parent iykwim like the whole thing is to make the subs comfortable not fucking scared of you

Yeah definitely agre

The kinkiest thing about kink is Consent, Safewords and Aftercare 💜

🙏🏼❤️

Hell even outside of BDSM stuff I find myself constantly asking "does it still feel good/right?" "Are you ok?"

It should go without saying. Safety FIRST, because safety leads to trust, which leads to...well, everything else.

Well fkn said 👏👏👏

Consent is a real panty dropper

So true

lmao I check in constantly tbh

As one should

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