There's a framework lurking here I need to workshop out. We tend to conflate these concepts or imply missing one creates the other e.g. assuming a good relationship has no problematic elements.
* Healthy
* Dysfunctional
* Loving
* Predatory
* Problematic
* Nonconsensual
I'm missing plenty I'm sure
Nothing is more contextual than a relationship, and (arguably) no one can know most about the context than those who are in it.
(Of course, even then, some context will be missing because some of it can only be accessed from the outside, but I’d argue you’d still be missing more than from within.)
