And yet I'm also accepting of trans women, and I'm the tallest member of my immediate family at 5'7", with a 5'2" mom and plenty of female relatives under 5' on both sides... (we're hobbit-adjacent, I'm realizing). I guess I'm in bucket #1?
Yeah, anything this esoteric is going to be only weakly descriptive at best. But I think the larger point is strong: a lot of transphobia comes down to insecurity, especially insecurity in one's own identity.
Totally. And I'm aware of it in myself!! Which is why I take the time to examine my priors. But I fully understand the components of the phobia and bigotry.