craplord (they/them) 🏳️‍⚧️: i refuse to call ED drugs, men on muscle building supplements, and men who Do Stuff To Not Bald anything but gender affirming care lately love to piss off a Macho Man

calling hormonal birth control “ftf hrt” and pissing every single person off

i refuse to call ED drugs, men on muscle building supplements, and men who Do Stuff To Not Bald anything but gender affirming care lately love to piss off a Macho Man

as you should they literally are

It literally is though. And fuck, I get it, especially that last one. I will NEVER judge a man for doing What Must Be Done to Not Bald.

let me clarify: 100% literally is and it is certainly not something i say to “shame” people unless trying to get the uninformed to see things on a level playing field ☺️ (and also going bald is one of my biggest fears and has only become even more so since coming out 🫣)

i dont think dom was saying you were but more clarity is always good

i didn’t read dom that way BUT it made me realize i COULD be misread lol between the high nd population on this app (it me) and all the inter-queer drama this week, im just trying to be CRYSTAL fuckin clear hahaha

totes totes totes

Oh yeah, it's more of a society-wide thing. And yes it absolutely 100% is. It's truly weird how people who take proactive measures to prevent male pattern baldness...are shamed and ridiculed for it??? Literally. Like the only "acceptable" male option is to shave it clean off and fully fuck that

Like just be a clone, assimilate fully into the boring etc. Heaven forbid you be a man who goes against the grain a LITTLE

Just realized I meant to say BORG, not boring but eh. Either works lol

be bald drive truck eat meat hate wife

not that weird, the only thing worse in the eyes of society than not fitting gender roles is /trying/ to fit them. it must be effortless or it is shameful

transphobes like “i dunno it feels like you’re playing a ROLE” BITCH CAUSE Y’ALL MADE US PLAY A DIFFERENT ROLE OUR WHOLE LIVES NOW WE HAVE TO LEARN TO BE OURSELVES 😂

i dont judge people for the things they do to better align with societys expectations of their presentation and performance, feels shitty to blame the individual for breaking under societal pressures

like i wouldnt be shit about a woman trying to lose weight or getting cosmetic surgery or anything like that at all (barring her perpetuating the same hurt shes feeling) so like

also some of us women use ED drugs too, so

yuuuup!

it totally is though!

I have long, gorgeous hair and I will absolutely seek GAC to keep it

I true because it's true

i find anti-baldness drugs as gender affirming care interesting because not being bald is absolutely a beauty standard for men, but is entirely divorced from biology; you literally have to block the effects of testosterone. good example of gender being way more social than people like to believe.

I do this except for ED drugs because I think boner pills is funnier.

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