Neil Gaiman, *63yo, insists that his sexual relationship with his live-in nanny,*23, which started on her first night at his home, was consensual.
It’s not the 80’s sir. The power imbalance & her dependency on you for employment & housing, make this at a minimum coercive & far from consensual.
There is another similar incident from the early 2000s you might be thinking of too.
40-ish Gaiman met early-20-something fan at a con, she is accusing him of rape/assault during their "relationship"