It will never not be infuriating to see people say "if my partner ever mentions this topic I will break up immediately" because that means your partner isn't allowed to trust you with all of their feelings. And that's not healthy for either of you.
Depends if its a matter of not wanting to discuss of have certain topics brought up, or a matter of not wanting to be with someone who holds certain stances and opinions. Like I'd instantly break up with anyone who was any flavor of queerphobic.
For me, the queerphpbic thing depends on how it shows. Like, does it feel like bigotry or ignorance? Cause definitely I'd break up with a bigot. But if they just are misinformed about something, I'd be more gentle.
