Hey, if it’s alienating to hear “I told you so,” that’s probably because you didn’t listen, and you know it, and you feel bad — because you should feel bad. Making the other person feel bad for being right and saying so is a great way to deflect attention from your own unwillingness to listen.
i don't want to alienate anyone with i told you so shit but like if you are just joining us with "things in america look very bad" you might consider listening to people who have been saying that who you have been pointedly ignoring
