helped a girl update her name and pronouns in our system and she goes "wow, they must have good training there, you weren't an asshole about any of this" and i just went "girl, listen to my voice and think about my name being charlotte"
ten solid seconds of silence followed by "oh shit hell yeah"
current name change nightmare situation: trying to update with health insurance is proving to be the most difficult so far
tried to update it online, got locked out of the portal because the email that I used has been flagged by Google as being suspicious. I only use this email for health insurance
before you decide you don't want to vaccinate your children you should have to take a 4 hour cemetery tour with me where i point out every tiny little headstone of a child that died from a preventable disease and is buried with their parents who would have done anything to save them