multiple important people in my life are not speaking to me and idk what the hell I can do
nothing
just try not to do whatever unacceptable thing it is I did to anyone else
if I can figure out what it is and if it isn’t “be a goblin and a dumbass”
get rekt Harris
IME there are no real _solutions_ to this situation or the way it chews up your brain, but often it's just 'these people are pathologically conflict-averse' or 'a drifting apart that has no single cause or remedy'.
At the end of the day, it's usually not about us.