Queer people: please stop assigning value to yourself or others based on the amount and severity of oppression received. Do you not understand how much power that gives our oppressors and how it incentivizes division?
Let me be real clear before the bad faith squad shows up: I am absolutely not talking about identifying how different groups are oppressed differently/to different degrees, or how multiple marginalizations work. I'm talking about "X isn't queer because they're not oppressed like Y."
If I had a dollar for every time I was told, 'Aces aren't queer. No one knows you don't have sexual attraction, and everyone thinks you're just a cishet not getting laid,' I'd not be rich, but I could buy myself a decent meal.
