Judging folks for not knowing the thing "everyone knew" in your whisper network is a great way to tell the people whose safety you don't care about that you also feel morally superior to them.
Also, if the demographics your whisper network look nothing like the demographics of the perpetrator's victims, you don't have a whisper network, you have a gossip mill.
well if you would have known the secret i intentionally kept from the public you wouldn't make mistakes like trusting a by-and-large publicly unproblematic figure to not be a rapistπππππ
