At least once a month I'll see some online spat and barely resist the urge to jump in the middle with a comment, and find out in a few hours, days, that I had been missing vital context. Saved once again by the simple guideline of don't defend anyone less they're family, or paying you to do it.
this only applies online!
I jump in the middle in real life all the time. Also gets me in trouble at times, but it's usually easy enough to be on the side of everyone just chill and go separate ways.
