Because sure society says āoh naughty naughty bad manā but the dialogue is
Why didnāt you leave
Was it that bad
Well he didnāt hit her
Some woman just go on and on and i can see why the man breaks (my father)
I didnāt really like her much
Well you make your bed
Why didnāt she tell anyone
The weight of the shame because you found yourself having a relationship and then trying to leave an abusive man is Phenomenal Like SERIOUSLY PHENOMENAL
it never goes away