"They troubled me and haunted my nightmares and my daydreams, worried and upset me on profound levels, but they also taught me that, if I was going to read fiction, sometimes I would only know what my comfort zone was by leaving it; an
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Right up there with “it was a joke! Take it easy, etc”. No, no it’s not. It’s not just anything. But gaslighting. It’s always, always, forever gaslighting.