It's so important. Knowing all of my neighbors and having a few active PODs really helped me through the height of the COVID pandemic. I was grateful that I had spent years in advance laying those foundations. Highly recommend.
I did too. I had an amazing support structure. Then polycule drama and medication-induced psychosis, among other things, blew everything apart just before COVID.
I barely survived.
People needed me. That's literally the key reason I'm still alive. And in order to make sure I'd continue being able to help, I built interdependence via my solidarity work on social media.
I stuck around initially because some of my chosen family badly needed a place to live, & one of those people was 11 years old. Keeping them safe was more important to me than ending the pain.