there is nothing that people asking the internet for advice hate more than when they try to intentionally misrepresent a situation and the commenters immediately pick up on it anyway
I like when the very obvious problem is that the husband is cheating and it’s like “guys, please stop focusing on cheating. He’s not cheating. I *know* he’s not. I want advice on how to get him to stop spending every night out of the house and all our money.”