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Are men emotional? A story in three parts.
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💯👍👍👍 Claire said it well, too @clairewillett.bsky.social
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There is no creature on the planet more emotional than the man screaming into your face that he's not emotional.
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Maybe the man crying because his favourite sports team lost comes close though
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The difference is that the guy whose sports team just lost doesn't usually pretend to be an emotionless Spock-like entity.
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I mean, it depends how often our sports team loses and if we're numb to it already... Next year guys, next year...
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Lol then they get an acceptable excuse to riot, kill, assault and destroy property! Also, if their team wins? Same pass!
Sports riot - Wikipediaen.m.wikipedia.org
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Yeah but that’s a good thing
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True, one would wish though that these men should show the same emotionality when dealing with real loss (and don't wreak havoc on a town after a win)
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1/ There are some people like me that are not emotional sorts. Yes I experience it, but I guess there was something that broke in me. I experienced quite a lot of bad shit then finally in my third rehab I was sitting in detox and just broke the fuck down and was wailing.
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2/ after that...back to just being an unsentimental person trying to dodge the constant anxiety. I am working really hard to be more emotional for my son...because I don't want to be like my dad in this respect, who also I only ever saw cry once in my life...only ever expressed anger.
Good on you for working to break that generational trauma
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3/ The guy in the tweet clearly is not like that because I recognize that how I experience emotion is a problem and I work on it. Its another reason I stay single. I am not a joy to be with.
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Not experiencing your emotions fully due to experiencing trauma is so valid and so different than branding violence & anger as "not an emotion" because you have been trained by society to mistake your feelings for facts. That guy was the latter Your experiences are nothing like his weird attitude ❤️
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Thanks! Laying traps for sexist idiots is a hobby of mine. Nice to meet you 🤗
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Same same and I see on twitter we have tons of moots and I'm shocked I never ran across you before but looking at your timeline I'm SO glad I did! You rock!
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You two weren’t already connected? Surprising. But glad you found each other. Two of my favorites.
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It's been a long time since the twitter algorithm's function by frequently showing me my friends. I have lists and alerts and I still feel like I barely see anybody anymore. I'm not surprised I hadn't seen her yet. The algo'a broken. But today was the day!
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Oh wow we also share a birthday
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it's so much better because there were multiple steps where he should have realized what was going on and yet off he trotted down the garden path, lmao
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When I did this I kept thinking that he would figure it out, but he just ran face first into the point
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I almost laughed out loud at "A hormone. Where are you going with this?" like, dude I guess deep down they feel like girl hormones are icky pink mother nature moon woo and boy hormones are smart blue chemical Darwin science
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I kept waiting for him to figure out where it was going, but he never did. Some limbs like to be led to the slaughter I guess
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I have done variants of this many, many times over the years. I'd say 1 out of 10 saw it coming.
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you’d never have to have this conversation with a bear in the woods
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THANK YOU It's amazing how anger (and related emotions) are somehow not viewed as emotions. What else would they be?
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The terrifying reality is that anger, for whatever reason (usually a stupid one they should go to therapy for) is their baseline. They assume it’s normal for all men.
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Very true and yes very terrifying
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I'm sure many of these Manly Men™ view them as instinctual behaviour rather than emotions, y'know, them being Alpha Males and all ;)
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I miss the days when one of the main traits of "manliness" was supposed to be self-restraint, not rage and violence.
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Not "men don't have emotions" but "it's ok to have emotions but it's a worthy challenge to not always lead with them"
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That dude was murdered in broad daylight.
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And I'll get away with it every time.
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That was simply brilliant. I love how you built it up, like a beautiful house of cards and then blew it all down, taking him back too school. I do love intelligence and knowledge and especially when it's that sharp.
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Why thank you. He didn't mean to but he made it rather easy.
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How did he not see that coming? Probably blinded by his over active hormones. Is being smug and wrong a hormone? Is that what happened to him?
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I'm sorry did that "man" use a fucking South Park gif in the middle of what he perceived to be a serious discussion??
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It was hard to believe he was serious, but he absolutely was.