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I think a lot of interpersonal conflict specifically in internet spaces also comes from the discomfort of just disliking people. But it’s very normal to dislike people. It’s natural and it is not something you need to examine for it’s morality.
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Also discomfort in people disliking you. It’s a hard one to sit in but important.
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When teaching, I tried to model the “not everybody has to like me (implied: or everybody else) and if we all liked the same thing/person that would be boring.” I was fine with students disliking me. I’m not to everyone’s taste. And I’m quite bland on first meeting (I hide my personality at 1st).