the fairest of the mall (helena)

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the fairest of the mall (helena)

@helenaoftroy.bsky.social

(formerly @frankiemydear)

you are what you love, not who loves you💛

i draw, i sing (badly), i use too many emojis and share my head with two other people. these words aren't mine officer, i'm just holding them for a friend!

she/her🏳️‍⚧️ free palestine
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so uhh we had a blood test this week and we were wondering if the estrogen injections have been effective, and well as it turns out they’re a little *too* effective because our e level is over double what it should be 😬😬😬
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day 199: inspired by the time we saw a pigeon just floofed on the ground surrounded by pringles, living his best life 🥰
day 198: only had 5 minutes so just a quick sketch of a pigeon we saw at the bus station, i think she was waiting for the 110
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just read through every page of this and it was *incredibly* satisfying
LOL!!!! A gender critter believed their tripe about being a protected species, objected to an *OPTIONAL* scheme to put pronouns on emails and tried to use it for a bit of transphobia and found exactly how far a manifestation of beliefs goes (your beliefs may be protected, manifesting them less so)
Mr J Orwin v East Riding of Yorkshire Council: 6000146/2022www.gov.uk Employment Tribunal decision.
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LOL!!!! A gender critter believed their tripe about being a protected species, objected to an *OPTIONAL* scheme to put pronouns on emails and tried to use it for a bit of transphobia and found exactly how far a manifestation of beliefs goes (your beliefs may be protected, manifesting them less so)
Mr J Orwin v East Riding of Yorkshire Council: 6000146/2022www.gov.uk Employment Tribunal decision.
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Am super low on cash right now as am not spending my deposit/moving money at all which is my only income (still waiting on the housing Im meant to be going to). Is anyone able to do me a huge favour and send me like a fiver for bits and pieces until I'm paid at the end of the month PayPal.me/smloem
Pay Emi Smith using PayPal.Mepaypal.me Go to paypal.me/smloem and type in the amount. Since it’s PayPal, it's easy and secure. Don’t have a PayPal account? No worries.
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🧵Why Are All The Trans Women Horny I wanted to make this thread because it's a question I see posed all the time, basically framing trans women as sex obsessed and saying that is the problem. I'd like to address it calmly and factually because it's actually pretty interesting! And you should read
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cis "allies" really don't like it when you point out they are, at best, humoring your existence and "identity"
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“life may be scary, but it’s only temporary, everything in life is only for now” youtu.be/XJdcROXeaWc?...
For Nowyoutu.be For Now By Avenue Q
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gm and welcome to sumo facts: TOP TRUMPS day 2! 📇: Atamifuji 🌏: Japan 🎂: 21 📏: 6ft 1 ⚖️: 399lb 🏆: 0 🤼: yotsu-sumo (mawashi) 🎲: basho runner-up twice. nicknamed ‘ATOMIC’, has beaten 3 ozeki. says biggest hero is his sister who captains a famed high school sumo club. known for his big smile 😎: 81%
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day 198: only had 5 minutes so just a quick sketch of a pigeon we saw at the bus station, i think she was waiting for the 110
day 197: you’re all talking about JD Vance when you should all be takin’ a big ol glance at today’s drawing
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go to the belgrave music hall and canteen and get the pizza; (if you’re queer) find a night where someone is playing at wharf chambers and go; get coffee/tea at the tiled hall cafe; hang out with me!
Let's have some fun on Bluesky tonight! Tell me where you live and one thing everyone should do in your city! #flythefriendlysky
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day 198: only had 5 minutes so just a quick sketch of a pigeon we saw at the bus station, i think she was waiting for the 110
day 197: you’re all talking about JD Vance when you should all be takin’ a big ol glance at today’s drawing
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misgendered! on the way home from football ☹️
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teasing rachel by saying we’re actually better at football when i’m present than when they are 😁
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for reasons i don’t want to get into i’m very cross at paramore so am refusing to sing their songs to The Baby, even though we can totally hit all the high notes in “all i wanted”
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I can't fucking believe you're calling me an "unethical telepath!" I'm just saying what everybody's thinking!
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i can fully believe that people like wes streeting can be “ok” with trans people and still oppose trans healthcare for kids, bc they’re “ok” with us as long as we look like trannies (so they can tell if one of us is around when they talk about us), and forcing the wrong puberty on us helps with that
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Why it always seem people are surprised when trans people dont just accept our oppression what did yall expect that we go quietly
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@shodaiswife.bsky.social's sumo-posting is probably the only useful information i've ever learned on social media
gm and welcome to sumo facts day 1: RIKISHI TOP TRUMPS EDITION 📇: Tamawashi 🌏: Mongolia 🎂: 39 📏: 6ft 2 ⚖️: 392lb 🏆: 2 🤼: oshidashi (push out) 🎲: oldest active top division rikishi; oldest EVER to win basho (modern). known as ‘THE IRON MAN’, has never missed a day of sumo from injury/illness 😎: 82%
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gm and welcome to sumo facts day 1: RIKISHI TOP TRUMPS EDITION 📇: Tamawashi 🌏: Mongolia 🎂: 39 📏: 6ft 2 ⚖️: 392lb 🏆: 2 🤼: oshidashi (push out) 🎲: oldest active top division rikishi; oldest EVER to win basho (modern). known as ‘THE IRON MAN’, has never missed a day of sumo from injury/illness 😎: 82%
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a rule of thumb is it's never ok to say or imply that trans women are men. even if they are being shitty. that's not a lever you pull.
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rare system W: after four or five months therapy is now a safe space where we feel comfortable interacting with each other rather than one of us feeling like we have to front the whole time, so instead of like "helena's session" or "frankie's session" we're all there and able to speak 😊 feels good!
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idea for a snack bar where you get a bag of plain crisps (regular, crinkle-cut, baked, maybe even like skips-style things) and then select your flavouring powder and you get to mix it up right there
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you: no one should have a Weapon of War capable of threatening the president from that great distance me: shoulda have been back in the tree line with a bolt action
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reminder we’re trying to get people to ask some questions about being plural so we can put together a kind of ‘101’ guide to help demystify it! please ask/share so we can do this!
idk if i have the reach to get responses, but i set up a lil form if ppl want to ask a question! it could be about plurality in general, living as a plural person, or anything else! if you think someone already asked your question, they probably didn't so just go for it :) forms.gle/enznAGCDAH1Q...
Ask a Plural Person Anything!forms.gle Hi! We are looking to put together a bit of an explainer-y FAQ type blog post about being Plural - and we'd love your input! No question is too basic, too controversial, or too abstract - and if you ...
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look at our allies dawgggg im going to a camp 😖😭😫
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"People will find your bones and know you were male" and they'll see our headstone and know we were trans so idgaf
"people will find your bones and know you were male" What? Just because I have a bone collection, in my ossuary, in my bone garden they will think was male? SMH, god forbid a woman has hobbies...
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i still love this movie so much, even thinking of jenny's story makes me cry and the bit at the end where he's talking to her grave is the saddest thing ever 😭 we also saw a hindi-language remake a couple years ago called laal singh chaddha which was amazing too! www.theguardian.com/film/article...
Forrest Gump review – Tom Hanks’ hero still gets under your skin 30 years onwww.theguardian.com Robert Zemeckis’s re-released fantasy is entirely ridiculous, hokey-sentimental and politically naive, but it’s superbly paced and expertly acted