The thread she's responding to isn't particularly helpful either.
I think the reason some men are criticizing TERFs is because trans people can already access bathrooms and women's shelters and we don't see them committing sexual assault!
TERFs are lying; that's why they're being criticized.
To be fair when TERFs talk about "men" criticizing them you also have to count all of us cis women that they call men for daring to disobey their ideology.