In 2015 DeBoer wrote me to ask about restraining disabled children, to demand answers about when it might be ok. Given answers, he then of course never responded. I wrote about it here:
www.davidmperry.com/restraint-fo...
This is thoughtfully articulated and I envy the skill that went into it. It’s most important ableds remember that however they feel about someone’s disability, it never inconveniences them more than the one who has it.