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hey hivemind, can anybody recommend a good read on infertility grief? Preferably one that's queer-inclusive and not Christian. asking for a me.
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Sitting here sobbing and feeling like nothing's ever going to be okay again.
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I don't have a book rec but I empathize and I'm sorry. My wife and I started IUI in 2021 and are in round two of IVF now. All of it is brutal and lonely, and miscarriages are hell 🫂💜
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thanks for the kind words 💙 🫂
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I hope things work out for you
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thanks. at the very least, I'd like to aim for finding some kind of acceptance and closure-- I think that much, at least, is within my means, even if right now things hurt.
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I wish I could; at one point I was poised to write about it in a book but it never went ahead.
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I'm sorry --- this is a really rough thing to deal with and I hope you get good recommendations.