Stefani Goerlich

@stefanigoerlich.bsky.social

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Certified Sex Therapist, Award-Winning Author, Clinical Social Worker, BDSM/Kink expert, SexTech consultant, co-host of Securing Sexuality. ✡️

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The idea that Biden needs to be perfect over the next four months is insane. Just absolutely fucking bonkers. He doesn't need to be perfect. This election is an "I don't need to be faster than the bear" situation. He needs to be better than Trump. The end.

Hey, hacker friends! Do you hack dating websites? Have you ever poked around inside their matching algos? Or pen-tested their profile privacy? Do you wanna be in a book?! Well have I got an offer for you!! (Seriously, if you do this kind of thing? HMU)

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Stefani: Every technology gets eroticized. Me: Surely not *every* one. Take the original computer scientists. Old school mainframe engineers. They did serious work. @stefanigoerlich.bsky.social: I’ll just leave this here. youtu.be/LtlrITxB5qg?...

The IBM 1401 mainframe runs "Edith"youtu.be This politically incorrect one is going to lose me the precious few female followers left on my channel. But for the good of academic research, we were asked to run the program "Edith" on the vintage 1959 IBM mainframe at the computer history museum. Which goes on to prove that the more technology evolves, the more things stay the same. And I forgot how to pronounce the alphabet in German. Original code and IBM 1401 emulator to run it can be found on my website: https://www.curiousmarc.com/computing/ibm-1401-mainframe/ibm-1401-edith Our sponsor for PCBs: https://www.pcbway.com Support the team on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/curiousmarc Merch on Teespring: https://teespring.com/stores/curiousmarcs-store Learn more on companion site: https://www.curiousmarc.com Contact info: https://www.youtube.com/curiousmarc/about

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One awesome conversation with @thepacketrat.net on romance scams leading to pig butchering. open.spotify.com/episode/5o77...

74. This Little Piggy Went Bankruptopen.spotify.com Listen to this episode from Securing Sexuality on Spotify. This week, we're learning all about pig butchering! No, Stefani is not forsaking her Jewish roots to go "whole hog," but she is going to lear...

I’m lucky @jwgoerlich.bsky.social loves me, because his talk for @bsides312.bsky.social just got waitlisted… while his tech adjacent sexpert wife was asked to be their keynote.

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Oooh those Delta Lounge vibes… If you’re in Denver? I hope you’ll visit the Tattered Cover this Saturday at 6pm. @stefanigoerlich.bsky.social will be there sharing insights from her book, With Sprinkles on Top. Join us!

Me, watching the Schiaparelli S/S24 show and trying to convince @jwgoerlich.bsky.social that I need this dress to wear for my first RSA talk. (Oh- I’m speaking at RSA this year!)

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My self-described tech-adjacent partner dropping cybersecurity wisdom for everyday people doing everyday things online. @stefanigoerlich.bsky.social Safe Sex In a Digital Age: Considering Sexual Health and Safety in an Online World, Ep. 190 www.youtube.com/watch?v=bT-e...

Safe Sex In a Digital Age: Considering Sexual Health and Safety in an Online World, Ep. 190www.youtube.com Dr. Stefani Goerlich provides a framework for how clients can engage more healthfully and safely in intimate ways in an ever-connected online world. Includin...

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In a Christmas first, last night I caused a minor explosion with the ham. There was a flash of flame & a whoomph big enough to push the oven door open a few inches. Our best guess is that the fumes from the extremely boozy marinade I made for the ham ignited. Let me know if you want the recipe.

Oh hey, guess who’s a lecturer at the University of Minnesota Medical School’s Coleman Institute for Sexual & Gender Health starting next month? (Hint: It’s me)

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Wolf & Stef are joined week on the #podcast by Apollyon, who has worked on several major altsex platforms- including a new one that's addressing some of the biggest security pitfalls users have experienced in other online spaces: Submit social. podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sec...

Chag Sameach Hanukkah!!

I’m so excited: I entered a raffle to raise money for Israeli charities and just won a custom made pair of fancy ballet flats!!! I never win anything!!

For anyone in the Milwaukee/Chicago area, Lion's Tooth books is hosting an event celebrating my new book tonight at the Sugar Maple Bar in MKE. Starts at 5:30 w/ a short reading, then a Q&A. Then,(if you’d like) I’ll sign copies of the book. I’d love to see you there!

Bin Ladin’s Letter to America going viral on TikTok only hammers home the need for authentic, warts-and-all History education. When you white wash history? Students feel validated by monsters they do not recognize, who interpret those (half) truths they see, but which were glossed over or ignored.

My first in-store event promoting With Sprinkles On Top is happening at Charis Books in Decatur in one hour! You can join the livestream here to see me chat with @sherrod.bsky.social about mixed desire relationships! Link below: crowdcast.io/c/with-sprin...

With Sprinkles on Top: Everything Vanilla People and Their Kinky Partners Need to Know to Communicat...crowdcast.io Register now for With Sprinkles on Top: Everything Vanilla People and Their Kinky Partners Need to Know to Communicate, Explore, and Connect--Stefani Goerlich in conversation with Sherrod DeGrippo on ...

That feeling when, after writing primarily academic books, you find your latest (and first mass market) title on the shelves at Barnes and Noble. OMG!!

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Don't target civilians. Don't defend people who target civilians. Don't support monstrous leaders you know are corrupt when they wage terror operations or military campaigns, when it's obvious they're using the suffering of others (or even their own people) to hold onto power.

Someone please ask @neilhimself.neilgaiman.com to contact this family and intervene, stat. 😬

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the intense horror and overwhelming sadness i feel even seeing snippets of how israeli jews were murdered by hamas is only compounded by the silence on the left.

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I need everyone who called reports of decapitated babies propaganda to never be taken seriously again. What Hamas did to men, women, and children on 10/7 included the must brutal, inhuman, vile acts of torture and defilement you can imagine.

My brand is notoriously subtle. 😎

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The Hamas incursion started with, and was enabled by, a form of denial of service attack—against the automated and remote-controlled border securing system. Stunning reporting here www.nytimes.com/2023/10/10/w...

10-10-23: The day something kinda awesome happened.

My publisher asked me to write an essay explaining why I wrote With Sprinkles on Top. Here’s my answer: www.resources.soundstrue.com/blog/erotic-...

Erotic Authenticity: Replacing Shame with Celebration - Sounds Truewww.resources.soundstrue.com Sometime last year, I was having a conversation with a close relative of mine. I had sent them a recent news story I was quoted in and had been met with… silence. Eventually, I nudged a little bit a...

This is the place where I checked out my first “birds + bees” book from the children’s section… and the place where the librarian called my mother because 7 year old me was trying to check out Lady Chatterly’s Lover from the adult section. In hindsight? I was always gonna be a sex therapist. 🤣

Mother-Son ayin hara tattoos… because we have each others backs.

They’re here!! They’re finally here!! OMG, I’m so excited!! Lmk if you want an autographed copy!!

Your pet/what they’re named for. (Together they become the Anarchist Kitten Collective)

Your pet / what they’re named after