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Bums me out every time I think about the group of people who went out of their way to help him do better and he seemingly just didn’t fucking try.
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Not to be glib re; the situation but holy shit that hat telegraphs everything about that story lol
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you shouldn't JUDGE a book by its cover, but usually it's a solid belwether
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If it weren't paired with that facial hair choice I'd be less likely to be prejudice lol
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Yeah that was about my reaction. I loved his work and never realized he was such a monstrous schmuck.
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I was one of those women. For *many* years. 😑
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Whoa really? With him specifically?
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My story is part of that statement. From 2005-2014, we were in contact nearly every day, via text, via email, and via phone. Skype sessions were at least once or twice a month, when I would put him into trance. I’m not proud, but it was certainly a lesson I’ll never forget.
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I'm so angry he ruined Planetary for me
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It's kind of distressing how much of the bookshelf I populated in my 30s is full of the works of problematic men. I still don't know if that reflects on men in general, or me...
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The annoying thing about life is that shitty people are talented and talented people make shitty decisions The important thing is that you aren’t making those decisions as well
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Beat in mind that shitty people control the access to make creative works, and tend to likewise promote and provide opportunities for people as bad as they are, so it’s near impossible to not end up consuming work made by shitty people - and to enjoy that work out of limited options available.
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The fact that they website eventually said "He stopped responding because the attention vanished" is the biggest thing. Like they were willing to work WITH him. He could have grown and fixed things.
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transmet is my problematic fave because darick put as much of himself into it as warren did and afaik that dude is still excellent certainly took the shine off the dynamic between spider and his assistants when you realize it's autobiographical instead of critical tho like louis ck's work
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God, this STILL hurts. Transmet informed so much of my early 20s and finding out Ellis is a titanic creep just *sucks*. I will say, rereading Transmet in recent years makes it seem almost quaint compared to the creatures we deal with daily now.
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Lol at Las Vegas's/now London UK's local serial harasser never failed to brag to me they were friendly.
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