Today is a tough day for many Neil Gaiman fans. Waking up to the serious SA accusations against someone whose work has meant so much to people is going to be deeply unsettling and heartbreaking. It's okay to feel a mix of emotions—shock, disappointment, even betrayal. It’s a grieving process.
I've unhallowed him everywhere. I'm so sick of this bullshit. I've started to realize how much the patriarchy has screwed women over. I still want to cry, though. Why?????? *screaming into the void*
I haven't told my daughter yet. I don't know when/if I will. I know I need to, but she was devastated when she found out about the accusations against her favorite musician. I don't know if I am ready to do that to her again.