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I am British and excited about our upcoming moderate Left government. There are things I disagree with them on! That’s OK, I can give my all to influencing them and they might actually pay attention, unlike a right wing government which definitely won’t.
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Are you talking about the party whose leader said last week that "handouts from the state" don't have the same dignity as working for a wage?
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I think they are more likely to be influenced by me and people I agree with than the Tories are, my friend.
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Sure, any influence is better than zero influence, unless it's only lip-service influence. I'm not convinced that the party that has excised its left-wing and regularly invokes right-wing shibboleths isn't itself right-wing, though. One of their major pledges is not to raise taxes. Interesting times
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here's something about me. this, and the nested posts, are my origin story. my experience and analysis is that it really does weigh with people when you say "I voted for you/I am part of your thing, and please change in this way" bsky.app/profile/naom...
Making arguments from the inside works. Showing that you understand exactly what the priorities of the organisation are works. Pointing out how they’re not living up to their own values works. Finding a parallel example of how to do it better works. Huffing off does not, in fact, work.
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what I would say is... as one of the UK's leading feminist writers, I am already thinking about how I can begin some conversations. this is only possible when people I fundamentally support are in power. the Tories would not give me the time of day.
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That relativistic position was adopted explicitly by Labour during Tony Blair’s tenure (his ‘better than the other lot’ speech). However, it’s really just allowing the opposition’s thought leadership to set the parameters of what’s acceptable.
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Sincerely, I hope it works and y'all make progress - I'm just cynical. It's certainly better than the hard-right turns happening in elections on the continent and possibly in the US.
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I think it's so important not to burn yourself out by aiming for only perfection. Everything that we have that is better than it could be is worth celebrating.
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Uhm - here's a little thought experiment. Which would you rather do in life - work for a living (at a decent wage), or exist on benefits handed to you by the state? Why? I can't know your answer, obviously, but having done both, I know mine, and dignity has a lot to do with it.
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You're assuming you can work, yes. Children, old people and people in hospital are supported by "handouts from the state." If people want to eliminate those because handouts lack dignity, that's a right-wing project. You've absorbed the shame people cast for being on benefits - no dignity there!!
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You’re being disingenuous. No-one’s saying children or ill people or old people should work (tho’ a lot of old people do choose to despite not needing to, the why of which is also worth thinking about.) We’re contrasting a working age life at work or on benefit. So what’s your preference & why?
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Incidentally, when I was on benefit, I wasn’t ashamed, because I (1) had no choice and (2) had paid into the system my whole working life and expected to do so again soon. But I didn’t like it, because (like most people, I think) I like to carry my own weight, not have someone else carry it for me.
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When it was you-in-particular receiving benefits, you-in-particular didn't lack self-reliant dignity, I got it. Starmer must be talking about everyone else on benefits, not you.
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so listen friends. I spent my childhood trying to explain my parents to each other and although I'm good at it it's not my fave anymore. you are both right. people like to work on good things if they can. people who can't work (or can't right now) should not be told they therefore lack dignity.
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I am up for having this in my mentions if you can keep it to "friendly good faith conversation about what we'd like our government to do". if it gets much more aggro than this I will block and thereby end the chat.
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Nah, it’s fine Naomi - I’m done. Don’t do SM combat, life’s too short.
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