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Also the associated other lesson: people can just dislike you it's fine, it doesn't have to mean anything.
I think a lot of interpersonal conflict specifically in internet spaces also comes from the discomfort of just disliking people. But it’s very normal to dislike people. It’s natural and it is not something you need to examine for it’s morality.
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there was an episode of the weekenders about this people
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As my grandma used to say "We're not Dollar Bills, to be liked by everyone"
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expecting every random stranger to delight in your presence is so unhealthy. it's very freeing to accept that some folks just will not vibe with you. maybe for now, maybe forever. it's okay. it's okay for YOU to feel that way about others sometimes. it's all good!