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It's lifechanging. "I always leave the broom here instead of putting it away...what if I just put a hook where I always leave it?" "I always take the scissors to another room and lose them. What if I put scissors in every room?"
After telling someone to throw out yet another useless book of advice for neurodivergent people clearly written by someone who isn’t neurodivergent I have one tip re developing a habit w ADHD: make it really easy to implement. Kids dropping wrappers on floor? Put out more trash cans in those areas
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"I always forget to empty that small trash bin bc it's out of sight. What if I put it where it's visible?" "I always lose my keys on the catch-all table inside the door. What if I just put hooks above the table?" THERE ARE NO RULES. Look at your problem areas and accommodate existing habits.
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Work with the brain you have, not the one They think you should have, is so key for like, everything
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Yep! It's a lot of pushing back against growing up with the message that I'm just lazy (though to be clear I am absolutely lazy sometimes).
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I always put everything down where it's visible, even if it's just for a second. The only rule is, "I will be able to spot this when I am wandering around the house looking for it five minutes from now."
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I've tried to explain to people for years that if I put stuff away, I forget it exists, and then I learned it's an actual thing, so I try to work around it now, keeping stuff visible.
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I did have places for things when I lived in the same house for 18 years. I always tried put a thing in the same place whenever possible but if I had to set it down elswhere it always had to be visible. Now I have a new house and no permanent places yet so everything is set somewhere visible.
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Scissors in every room has been SO GOOD. When my daughter was a complex and slightly malicious 4-year old, she tended to hoard them. I flooded the house with scissors and hairbrushes.
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tbh, I still misplace the scissors, but it's sort of like musical chairs where they end up going room to room so it all works out lol.
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I have a couple of different colors, so eventually I say, "Oh, those are the bathroom scissors" and put them back (after the dining room scissors have turned up, though, I'm not foolish).
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I felt stupid buying another broom when I knew exactly where my broom was. But I also knew that I would not bring it back downstairs. So now I have an upstairs and a downstairs broom. I already had an upstairs and downstairs vacuum because my mom’s was too heavy to bring up.
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I think that's great! I'd do the same if I was in a house. I duplicate as much as seems reasonable rather than fight my brain.