I’m joining a mathrock band. I’m doing a headline show in London in a matter of weeks. I’m on a tour of Britain in November.
It’s twinkly, tappy and so fucking fun.
trans girl: i just wish people wouldnt be so willing to throw us aside. i just want to be heard. everything is so scary
cis with pronouns in bio: why is this dude so aggro??
you know one of my first thoughts i get when i start to care about someone—in any context be that romantic, platonic, familial, whatever—is "i want to see you grow old."
you have to live.
man i just love drinking water. i love to be hydrated and moist on the inside. water belongs inside the body, as they say. except sea water. if you see water drink it but if you sea water dont drink it haha. as they say. haha. by the way did i mention i really like hydration
To know you are trans and to be forced to slowly watch your body change in ways you dont want while the adults in the room pat each other on the back about how careful they are being in refusing to help you
trans women are women trans men are men non binary people are valid said under their breath like a hail mary before they jump back online to call a girl who doesn’t know where her next meal is going to come from or if she’ll have a roof in a month basically a white man for self advocating
Did you know that in America there's this really interesting third gender that culturally takes on many traditionally feminine aspects of society?
Things like sex work, care based labour, and wearing women's clothing.
Yeah, they're called trannies, it's very important to not call them women.
Japan has a really cool non binary gender called "otokonoko", India has a really cool non binary gender called "hijra", Thailand has a really cool non binary gender called" kathooey", Hawaii has a really cool non binary gender called "mahu wahine", Napoli has a really cool non binary gender called-
they won't accept you, sis. I swear, they'll love you until they finally cross a line of yours and you think 'okay I've earned enough Good Tranny Points I can explain why THIS is bad and they'll accept it' and then you'll be on the list you gave them with the rest of us.
i don't want to name any tgirls in particular, but if you are a recently-out trans woman and you're still finding your place in the world, i need you to understand that trying to be One Of The Good Ones to cis people who hate you will not end well for you. you are worth more than that. love yourself
Anyway all this talk of affirming surgery just reminds me that none of this is happening unless you’re rich.
I play music. Nobody wants to pay people for that.
I guess I’ll check in on what remains of the NHS when they see me in 2040 or so.
