I’ve experienced a lot I didn’t/don’t deserve & at times it almost broke me. When asked how I kept/keep going, I answer that if sharing my experiences can help others, at least there’s a silver lining & something good. Until now, I never considered how my perspective is the exact opposite of this.
Transcender is great term for it.
And should be the goal of our society across the board.
If we're not making things better for others, wtf are we even doing here?
Exactly.
Andrew once honoured me with that title: his work is a testimony to how we can both identify the predators but strive for a world without them.
"If I can choose for someone else to suffer the way I have suffered, I feel slightly less powerless in my suffering. Now give me your lunch money, Billy."
And on that path you'll only ever feel fear of someone taking your lunch money from you again, laughing at you again, walking out on you again. But if you make it so nobody's lunch money is taken, nobody is victimized, everybody is supported, then you won't have yo feel that fear anymore. Here's $2.