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Years ago when I confronted a creep for being a creep (threatening, stalking, etc) he immediately called all of our mutual friends and said "I'm really worried about Gillian, she's saying some really crazy stuff. You know her childhood was rough etc etc"
oh this is disgusting. using the typical "she made it up for revenge" and "she's too mentally ill to believe" BS. www.tortoisemedia.com/2024/07/03/e...
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it's so fucked up how that's used against victims. basically calling survivors unvictimizable bc of our history
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like my ex husband calling my therapist after our divorce and saying “i’m worried about [LC], her perception of reality is really skewed lately” my therapist said “if that’s not +1 confirmation for the abuse you’ve been describing, idk what is”
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Triangulation! It’s like a race to get a third party to validate and help project their narrative established before you can tell them the truth
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How did he get Jesse Singal's pkaybook
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Yeah when I confronted my cousin who abused me when we were younger (4 year age gap) and who is now anti-lgbtq, he blocked me and called my mom and grandma to cry and say I was hurtful and a liar and appealed that I've always been depressed and so on (because of the abuse of course)
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I once worked for a covert manipulator. He kept telling people his ex-wives were crazy. After I resigned, he refused to pay more than $90,000 of my wages.