For Disability Pride Month, one thing I'd love abled bodied people to figure out is how to speak to someone with chronic health issues without implying that if they themselves had the disabled person's health conditions, they would end it all. I promise you life goes on- even with health issues.
I've had people say things like "I'd rather die than do that" about the most "mild" stuff like dietary restrictions.
(Not minimizing the burden of dietary restrictions at ALL, they are huge and emotional and very complicated, but what a weird hill for people to pick is my point.)
yeah!! I have Celiac disease and people tell me all the time that they'd rather die than not be able to eat bread
like okay, lol, sorry to hear that bread is the only good thing in their lives, hope they feel better soon, lol
Right?!
"Not eating dairy is impossible, I'd rather die"
'I mean, no, I do miss it but--'
"I could never stop eating it"
'...do you understand that terrible things happen to me when I do"
"You must have SO MUCH WILLPOWER"
'I really just prefer functional bowels--'
"YOU'RE SO HEALTHY"
I have a shellfish allergy and growing up people loved to tell me how great shellfish was and how upset they would be if they were unlucky like me
Well, jokes on them because I went vegan anyways lmao
.....though my cashew allergy is now much more of an obstacle....
This used to happen to my ex. His mom would put his allergen into food and then be like "what? you could barely even taste it" when he reacted badly to it
